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Sunday, October 19, 2008.
I realise that going back to your ex is somehow impossible.

Impossible to be as happy as you were before.

Impossible to forget all damage done.

Impossible to start afresh.

It just makes things worse, especially if you are not willing to forget the past. There will be a lot of random times that you will argue over the past, the reason why he/she left in the first place and it hurts both. Especially when you have gone to other people during the short break-up. Sigh.

It's not about love anymore, actually. True, if you love someone, you're willing to accept the mistakes they've done. But what if, they crossed your lines? They went over your limit on how much pain you can still bear? And how could you ever trust them like you did before? There's really no point proving how worthy they are for a second chance anymore. They waste the relationship for another person, and they want to come back because they can't forget the one they left. Wasn't it them who were showing that they wanted to move on in the first place? And it's as simple as that huh. They broke up with A, went with B,C,D then after getting bored, they get back together with A. Yucky, I know. So what are we to you? Dolls? Computers? Dogs? Even owners know how to treat their dogs right.

I don't know. It really depends on the individual. I've seen couples who have given each other a chance, and they are still happy. Like the saying goes, "You have to let the past go to embrace the future." Think about which you want to let go and think hard because it's not as simple as a mathematical equation. The mistake one has done, or one. It's hard, but you have to choose one and don't look back. If you do choose to forgive and forget, really do it without thinking of revenge or in easier terms, "He/she can do that to me, I can too".

But seriously, IN MY OPINION, I don't believe in giving them a chance, because they will do it again even though they've tried very hard to win your heart back. Not now but in a year's time or sooner. Another big fight and they'll run awayyyy. And the reason is because you have accepted them for their mistakes so easily, they know you'll accept them again next time. Trust me. That's why I chose to leave. It's time to move on. okay bye.

"Love makes the world go round". Ironic, isn't it?