There is and always has been one thing players have in common; SWEET-TALKING.
It doesn't really matter about the sex, gender or age even. If you're a sweet-talker, you're most prolly a playa. So why is it that they're like that? Here's my perception........

`1st.
They're good-looking.
They fucking know that they're good looking and that they can get many suitors, so why bother being serious when you can have all of them at a time? Everday's a different date, a different experience, a different person. They think they can charm their ways through which most prolly works because in general, people are always blinded by beauty. And the fact is that I'm not an exception either sometimes.

`2nd
They can never get enough.
With so many people chasing after you, it builds up your ego. Let me give you an example; A get alot of guys/girls. A gets a gorgeous guy/girl(hottest of them all already! What more do you want??!), but chooses to search for someone who is basically hotter. IT WILL NEVER END. You continuously searching for someone better will never end unless you look like Joe Jonas(OMG!!), that would be fine but then again..Sigh. Everyone is unique in their own way, so why the fuck do you have to go and search for someone else who is more charismatic, more fun or whatever?

`3rd
They judge too much on the 1st impression.
Okay... So u're attracted to this girl/guy, but you found out that she/he is BORING. And it's only your first date with him/her. So what happened to those late night talks you enjoyed so much with him/her before the both of you agreed to meet up? You say sugar candy words EVEN BEFORE THE BOTH OF YOU MEET to make that person fall for you, but you're not even interested actually. Maybe it's because you care too much about yourself or that your mother did not breast-feed you much? You never seem to want to get to know the person better. Maybe that person is just shy or whatever reason. It isn't their loss. It's yours, loser.

`4th
They've been hurt too much.
Aww.. That's a pity. So ten people ditched you in the past,and you think you want to hurt someone else who is not in the wrong or may have no intention to hurt you in the first place. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?! You sweet-talk(here it comes again) your way through someone's heart, mainly because of revenge towards the opposite sex, and leave that person hanging after making her/him like or maybe even love you. You'll never know if that person was actually the best for you. And you throw the chance of finding happiness away just like that.

`5th
Something is wrong with their head.
You're not attractive, stupid, fat, irrittating, etc.(no offence, really) And you think that by sweet-talking, telling them you're handsome when you're not, you'll get into their skirts. STUPID GIRLS FOR YOU PLEASE. If you don't have it, hide it. Not flaunt it sucker. C'mon, be yourself, will you? You'll just chase them away and let everyone else criticise you behind your back. I'm not saying that pretty girls ONLY date handsome guys, but yeah... You get my point right? I'm sure someone will love you for who you are. You don't have to be someone you're not. You're just hiding all the best things about you by doing so.

`6th
They just want to have fun.
You go around telling people that you got laid by this super duper HOT person yesterday night, bla3. WOW. It really makes your friends "dig" you for having gone to that extent on the 1st date. Well, we can't blame these people huh. Maybe because of social issues or something? Let them have all the fun they can, and then maybe they'll settle down some day. OR maybe not. It's okay to have fun when you're young, just don't do it to someone who is nice and decent. Do it with someone who is just like you, will you? And those virgins. You wasted their youth for a night you thought was fun with your charming smile and sweet talks(again!!!)? You're turning them into fucking playas as well. Most people(not only girls) don't say it, but deep down inside, we know that our virginity is important to us. And if we lose it to someone not worthy(especially players who don't give a damn), we in turn feel wasted and turn into playas ourselves. WHERE IS YOUR HEART? :'(

`7th
Players go for players.
HAHAHA. Taste your own medicine shit-face. The both of you may never settle down. And yes, you're gonna cheat on each other's backs, but what for? STAY SINGLE THEN, STUPID. Relationships are about building trust and loyalty, not playing around or to show people that you have a hot Bf/Gf. You end up breaking up, hating each other, bla3, and it goes on. So you want that kind of life huh? Imagine youself telling your future husband/wife that you had sex with more than 30 people. DAMN. Such a waste, don't you think so?

`8th
They have their own reasons.
There are many reasons but one of the main reason is this. Maybe becoming a player when you're young, you'll settle down when you grow up. Because life is meant to be enjoyed to the fullest right? I really have nothing against that, really. It's alright to taste Nasi Lemak, Lamb Chop, Tim Sum or Roti Prata before you choose to settle with the best. I've seen many do that and they have been married happily ever after. Just have your limits will you? When you're changing flavors, one mught get hurt along the way. Remember that what goes around comes around. Two can play the same game. You might eventually bite your own tail, or should I say toe?

I've run out of reasons to hate them therefore I'm stopping at favourite no. 8.

So my ladies & men, If you're a playa, search only for playas who wouldn't care less. Do not hurt someone innocent, PLEASE. If you want to settle down, seach for someone who is loyal and doesn't sweet talk much. Sweet talking is actually good, but only if it comes from your heart. Maybe that's one of the many reasons why people choose to turn gay/lesbain(and we all know that these people are usually good-looking).

Just don't be stupid to fall for sweet-talks easily, because I'm afraid you'll get hurt.
I just want fairness.