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Sunday, November 04, 2007.
a reunion of me and my very old friend- fashihah(the one with the peace sign above). lol. how things have changed. yet, i still lovee all of them alot. and congratulations to my cousin who gave birth on the 30th of october 2007. you'll be a great mother. be strong dear. =D
okay lets talk about the recent changes in my life.firstly, i got back to him. again. okay2 fine, say what you want. but the odd thing is, we are having more misunderstandings than before. well, relationships; the longer you are in a relationship, the more challenges you will face. am i not right? ive seen people who are so happy during the start of every relationship, head over heels for their new bfs/gfs. but WAIT! what u do not realise is that things will change after some time. no more sweet words and gestures. instead, irrationality and over-sensitivity usually happens. im not saying all but im speaking for the majority. and most couples tend to control each other even more each time. " you'd better not contact her anymore or else....!", and "what the hell was he doing there? were u bitchin around with him?", are some of the scenarios i would like to explain my perception of control. gosh! get a life. its not like you are going to get married to them the following month or year! IT IS OKAY TO HAVE FRIENDS OF THE OTHER SEX, BUT JUST DON'T GET TOO CARRIED AWAY. that's all i can say. if he/she is meant for you, no matter how better his/her friends might be, he/she will always stick with you if he/she really loves you, so why be so possesive? its like what they have in front of them is never enough and they try all means to change their other half into believing that they are doing the best for the relationship.its so complicated. but yes, people do get into relationships because of so many better reasons. thats why majority get married. and ive seen some of the best things about being in a relationship too but it'll be too boring if i were to exaggerate any longer. =D
PS: Mr Confused, if ure reading this, i just wanna say that IMY and that im really sorry dear friend.
